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NEWS March 19th 2000
Scams & Warnings
Contributed in 1998, I only found this article in March 2000, I have enclosed it because it verbalises some peoples real fears and becomes reality for others

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My mother & Lamin in the UK, very much the nice guy

I find it ironic that this item was added while Lamin was stikk our 'nice guy'

Then he tried to get money by attempted blackmail and refused to hand over our compound at Brufut or repay the loan we made him.

March 19th 2000

A couple of events have stirred up the press in The Gambia over the last week.

Rows in the National Assembly have brewed up mainly because of political disquiet over what seems to be little action from the ruling party over the plight of the countries farmers, who have had it worse in The Gambia than our farmers have been having it, in the UK

Also a 19 year old student EBRIMA BARRY from Brikama died after being interviewed by members of the Fire Brigade - You might ask - it seems he had been reported for indiscipline & truancy, but why the Fire Brigade?

Anyway on returning home it is said he told his mother that he had been beaten. He died later after being taken to a Medical centre.

Not suprisingly this item has been running for the last few days.

These and other items can be seen at the Gambianet.com site.

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GambiaNet is excellent for recent news and Quanet has links to the electronic versions of The Gambian Newspapers.

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From Jane Thombs - Australia

Lonely Planet already warns of the notorious hustlers, but a far more dangerous threat to others are what I would call those of the "nice guy" syndrome. The majority of the long-term visitors have fallen victim to them.

You will meet perfectly respectable people, often by chance it seems, who will "befriend" you quite innocently. They will warn you of the hustlers, decrying them and very subtly help you without any pushiness and appear perfect gentlemen - often very religious and pious too.

Gradually, over time as they have earned your confidence (and honoured you by taking you to their family) a hard luck story will enfold - eg a member of family in hospital, death of a breadwinner, personal betrayal or bad luck in business - they know what to target.

Westerners are not used to such wiles and fall for such clever manoeuvring. They have taken hustling higher to almost an art form and full time profession - they are so clever at deception that even some locals fall prey.
Jane Thombs, Australia (Sep 98)

GTS Comment (March 2000)

I'm sure Jane's comments are truly expressed from her experiences but before you recoil back from every helpful Gambian stranger, who, however charming, is potentially one of Jane's 'nice guys' please think about the situation carefully.

The Gambia is a very poor country with very poor people. All visitors are considered to be 'rich'. If they were not relatively rich, they could never afford the airfare to get there in the first place. There are bumsters and hustlers who will ask for money in return for no goods or services, supporting them it is neither good for them or for the Gambia in the long run, but giving them money is often the easiest option - so they are encouraged. It is harder to say no - but better for everyone if you do.

Then there are the 'nice guys'. Jane describes them perfectly, but they do exist everywhere, not just in the Gambia. This is a form of salesmanship - first get a persons trust and belief in you or your product and then maybe they will buy something from you. There's not a sales person that I ever met who hasn't done the same to me and the bigger the stakes the more they pile it on.

It is particularly hurtful and embarrassing when you believe the person involved to be your close and trusted friend, not just into sales of some kind. So when they are exposed by their actions for what they really are you end up feeling foolish and angry.

This is a common enough experience, it is what we warn our children about, when they make new and passionate friendships "don't be disappointed if this person isn't everything they seem to be" we say.

BUT it is not a reason NOT to help someone who needs your help and support.

The Gambians have few natural resources to develop, but many have developed their own ability to be totally charming and attentive towards visitors. Don't expect more than that charm and attention in return for what you give them, while you are there or send them after you leave. If you expect more, you will possibly end up being hurt, disappointed and feeling very foolish. When you leave, remember someone else will be the centre of their attention - What else can you expect?

So be warned, nothing is for nothing in the West and it's no different in West Africa. they have less than us and maybe they have more problems, and certainly they have NO welfare state - so if they don't ask they don't get anything and they take refusal very casually, it's what they are used to.

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