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Gambia Tourist Support - Reg Charity No 362/2003 GTS accused of dismissing staff who are in love with westeners A very suitable subject for Valentines Day |
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GTS does not expect any of its staff to use their position to create romantic relationships with guests. But the line between being professionally kind and helpful to visitors and being a bumster can be very narrow. It is TRUE that we no longer employ the young man and have informed his UK sponsors of his & our actions. Other employees have left GTS to go and stay with their foreign partners for extended lengths of time and had their jobs filled, GTS has NEVER dismissed anyone for having a Western friend. I think Marike's email raises some very interesting questions about the problems of employment within the tourist industry. The locals are mainly very poor with very poor extended families with whom culturally and traditionally they share everything they acquire. Visitors by comparison are very rich, I hear them say "just because we are on holiday here don't think we are rich" and then spend more on a meal than the Gambian WITH a job will earn in a week. It is therefore very hard for waiters and waitresses & others not to try to develop a friendship with someone who can help them financially. Some may even genuinely be in love for the right reasons. Some are in love with many special friends and being from a polygamous culture this may also be quite genuine. However most are very economical with the truth and/or are prepared to tell complete lies and mostly get away with it because of what we term visitors 'Holiday Dreams' I hope Marike's young man is more serious about his relationship with her than he was about his sponsored job with us, but the chances are not good. Comments to GTS |
GTS response below Marike's email Hello, But... there's one thing that concerns me. I understand that it's not easy and maybe you have your
own priority's. It's not a methode to solve this the problem. And I would like to receive a reply with your opinion about this. Please take care of your people and show them the good things
in life I tried to email my reply to Marike, but it bounced back. I have removed the name of the young man for obvious reasons. Dear Marike If this is the same young man he then turned up for a meal at the restaurant almost two weeks latter with a friend and a lady friend. He said he had not been in work because his friend from Holland had come to Gambia and he was with her. It is true I told him that not contacting us was not responsible and we had managed without him and replaced his position with a new member of staff. This had nothing to do with the nationality of his girlfriend it had to do with his lack of respect for his job - which he lost because he didn't care too much about it. We would never dismiss a member of staff because they had found a foreign friend and if this is what he is saying then he is covering up his own errors by suggesting someone else is being unfair to him so he will get your sympathy - not an unusual story in Gambia. If he was rich - AND this was not the hard luck story he was telling the English couple (or us) who were sponsoring him, then maybe he didn't even tell you about them. GTS is often in a difficult position Marike, we see these young men with a string of ladies week after week after week. Then we get the emails from the ladies who feel conned and ripped off when they discover what is going on. As a support organisation to tourists we do owe some responsibility to the tourists who are being taken advantage of, BUT as an organisation trying to employ Gambians we owe loyalty to the Gambians who are trying to stop being bumsters and working for their living. As a result we have a few rules -
I hope this helps you deal with the
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